O and U excerpt : Challenge assumptions

The following is an excerpt from week six of Onward and Upward. The eight-week online workshop begins next Tuesday, September 4. Onward and Upward is an 8-week online workshop that will help you get out of your rut and take things to the next level. Read O&U alumnus Allie’s review here or register today!


The first couple weeks we’ll talk about making that mind shift to recognizing and being ready for the fact that you don’t just have to do what your parents did, or continue in your cubicle job because of the benefits. The weeks following we’ll be talking about how to figure out what you want to do instead, what you should do. Your GREAT WORK. Until, week six we’ll talk about different inspirations and methods of doing our GREAT WORK. Maybe a charity can use your skills, maybe you are leaning toward starting a business. This week is about finding a new and memorable way to make your mark.

One important way to make your GREAT WORK awesome is to be sure that you really stand out – and one solid way to make sure you are standing out is to really challenge assumptions.

Challenge the way you’ve been thinking. Challenge the way your industry or niche thinks. Don’t just do things the way everyone else does just because it’s easiest – take a look at what assumptions your industry has and question question question!

For example, let’s take real estate. My husband and I last year went shopping for our first house. One of the first things our realtor eased our minds about was his contract. Unlike a big chunk of realtors in the industry, our realtor doesn’t require any kind of contract for us to stay exclusively with him.

Other realtors will have clients sign a contract so they can have a cut of whatever commission is earned when the clients buy the house, whether the realtor was fired before then or not.

So our realtor – Bryan Frieders with Firehouse Team – took a look at that model, that assumption, and just threw it out. His thinking is he wants his clients to be happy with whoever helps them find a house, even if it’s not him.

And let me tell you ….. SO refreshing. I’m sure a big part of why he gets so many referrals is that he does things differently and past clients are happy to refer new ones.

So, how are you going to make your GREAT WORK awesome? What can you do that is different than what your industry and competitors do? What assumptions and standards are you going to rebel against?

Think about:

What assumptions are you working within? What assumptions are made in your industry? What assumptions are your competitors working within? What is one thing about your industry, niche or GREAT WORK that has always bothered you and you can change today? What assumptions do you need to consider carefully before going along with it?

If you want a class that will change your life and how you look at your “great work” click here for more info and to register

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The following is a guest post from Kam of Campfire Chic. She is my #30Lists partner-in-crime and my closest friend that I’ve met online. She’ll be joining us in September for Onward and Upward 2012, as an alumnus of the 2011 workshop. Kam recently released her first ebook THREE-SIXTY-FIVE and you can read my review here.

Lemon and Raspberry is a fantastic resource for turning ideas into projects and possibly even finding and working on your great work. Amy is full of ideas and does a great job of turning the best ideas into projects.

But what if you have trouble coming up with ideas, let alone great ideas?

It’s called brainstorming, and as corporate or elementary school as it sounds, brainstorming can be a great thing. But like other great things (Nutella), when it is taken too far (like my fried Nutella wontons), you may be worse off than before.

So let’s talk a little about how you can curate and/or refine your brainstorming skills so you can more efficiently go from idea to project to finished.

Types of brainstorming styles you may want to try

Just start listing the words that are flowing around in your head. Maybe you’re thinking of a name for a blog post, a tagline for your website, or a team name for an upcoming trivia night at the local brewery. Just start writing.

A spider web…sticky, gross, usually inhibited by a spider…but what I’m talking about is the structure of a spider web. The center of the web is the hub…the big idea, the foundation for an online class, the theme of an ebook, the driving force behind a week of themed blog posts, or the goal of having a dedicated work/craft space in your home. It’s the center and focus of the whole deal.

Let’s use the example of writing and publishing an ebook. The center is going to be the working title of your ebook, the initial webbing will be things like Chapters, Design, Marketing (find out how to get your customers excited about a new product). From the Chapters web, there will be mini webs for your chapter ideas. If you’re writing a vegan slowcooker cookbook, some of those chapter ideas may include, the mighty chickpea, summer favorites, how many stews can you really make?, and spices. From those webs, you can start writing the basic ideas you have for each chapter…under spices, you’ll probably include cumin, fresh vs. dry, salts, for example.

You get the idea…your ideas are organized in a visual representation that will help move from idea to project.

This was my favorite way to start writing papers when I was in school. This exercise is for somebody looking to put down more than the words floating around in their heads…they have sentences…they have small paragraphs. This stuff may not have connections, or maybe there are missing steps, but it needs to be written down…and an unedited stream of consciousness brainstorm may be what is needed. Just “vomit” up all of the ideas and get them down on paper (digital or real). I like to do this when start a long blog post or working on copy for #30Lists. I can go back later and format, delete, add, and maybe even start over.

What works for me

I have lots of ideas floating around my head, I’m a Pieces through and through when it comes to daydreaming. The trouble I have is capturing those ideas, and working through them to a finished product. I’m not always a finisher, and to be honest, not all of my ideas deserve to see the finish line. When I know it is time to brainstorm, I usually go to my default: Lists.

If I am coming up with a name for something, I write down all of the words and strong keywords that I feel encompass the project. For example, I was working on coming up with a team name for the San Diego Color Run recently and needed a fun name for a co-ed team of people who don’t know one another. I started listing words that had to do with color in hopes of coming up with some sort of fun alteration. After about 10 minutes, Tough Ombre was born. I did the same “word dump” to come up with the name for Campfire Chic.

When I’m brainstorming for blog posts, I pull up my editorial calendar and take a look at what I already have on there. Pull out my list of blog post ideas (in fact, I have 365 blog post ideas for you) and start filling in the blanks and emailing myself with “homework” to do while on my lunch break at work…the homework being drafting the posts.

Try it!

Say you are a blogger who is going out of town for a week. You would like to have a week’s worth of blog posts scheduled and it is too late to request guest blog posts from your blogging friends. Your task is to come up with 5 blog topics that you would like to write about…sounds easy, right? Try to stay away from “Wordless Wednesday” “Favorite Things Fridays” or other content-less types of posts when brainstorming. What did you come up with?

Where do you go from here?

Brainstorming and generating ideas is a fantastic start. But it is only the start…the next thing you need to do is to act on those ideas and eventually finish the idea, if there is a finish.

Here are some resources that may interest you:

Kam is the blogger behind Campfire Chic. When she isn’t brainstorming new blog posts, adventures to take, or ways to survive her day job, Kam enjoys listening to podcasts, reading comics, and eating carbs. Her new ebook THREE SIXTY-FIVE has 365 ideas for blog posts, scrapbook pages, and art journal entries. The book is designed with you in mind and gets you brainstorming even more! Buy it today.

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Pay attention to your gut

My husband and I are working on a putting together our piece-of-crap house, I’m currently running 2 blogs and launching 2 online classes. Plus regular cooking and housework and kittie-care AND being out of the house 50+ hours/week at my ‘day job’

So, yea, I have a lot going on.

But I still would love to build my online income so every once in awhile I take a look at the ProBlogger Job board or similar.

The other morning, I just took a glance – to see if there was anything that caught my eye. And within seconds I literally felt exhausted and my chest tightened. Tell-tale signs of stress.

Just by *looking* at a job board for something I hadn’t committed to and didn’t even NEED.

So, all that to say … I know we all want to do more and be more and have more and whatever else is on your ‘goals’ list …. Just don’t sacrifice your mental health for it.

Pay attention to what your GUT is telling you.

It’s one thing to feel butterflies and nerves because what you are going to do is new and exciting and scary. As it would be with a new freelance gig I just lined up that I’ll tell you about at the right time.

It’s another thing entirely to feel tightness of chest and a little wave of depression because what you are thinking about doing is draining and stressful. As it was when I was looking at freelance jobs just to see if I should apply for one.

 Is there something you need to turn down this week?

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How to make time for your GREAT WORK

The following is a guest post from L&R sponsor The Nerd Nest! I’m super excited to share this with you, as this is a topic Megan and I have discussed previously via comments and tweets back and forth, so I know she cares about it AND this is a perfect little taste of what is to come in my Onward and Upward online workshop! I’d love if you commented below with any questions you have for Megan or for me.  Megan and Jake are starting a series this week – Getting It Done. Click on over to check it out!

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My name is Megan and I make time for my great work.

What kind of Great Work would you like to accomplish in your lifetime? Do you dream of becoming a noteworthy blogger, an amazing photographer, a tattoo artist, an award-winning chef, a corporate ladder climber, or an explorer of the world? Perhaps you share my dream of becoming a published novelist, or Amy’s dream of helping others to accomplish great work.

Whatever you want your great work to be, I’m here to tell you that no matter how busy your life is, you can find the time to work towards actively creating great work.

Here are four ways you can fit great work into your life:


Add Your Great Work to Your Routine

I wrote the first draft of my novel while I was a full-time college student, a part-time job holder, an avid scrapbooker, and parent to a precocious toddler. It may seem impossible to accomplish all of those things simultaneously and well, but I did. I found time to create my great work by allotting a small amount of time every day to work on my novel rough draft. Some days I’d write three hundred words before bed, sometimes I’d clear an afternoon and write a long chapter at a coffeeshop. By making writing part of my routine, I wrote the first draft in less than a year.

Now that I’m in the final editing stages for my manuscript, working in small bits everyday doesn’t work anymore. This stage of my work requires me to hold thousands of little details in my head as I’m working: it’s something that can’t be accomplished in small bits here and there. Now I work in several hour chunks each weekend.

Be flexible about adding your great work to your routine and match the time you’re spending to the type of work that needs to be done.

Find out what works best for you and commit to it.

If you’re working on a mural, sketch a bit everyday and then spend several hours once a week or a whole day once a month painting. If you’re working on becoming a great cook, challenge yourself to try a new technique every week or every day. If your great work is social activism, research daily and work towards making the world a better place on weekends. Add your great work to your routine, and you’ll be surprised at how much you can accomplish in a seemingly short time frame.


Improve Your Skills

I started writing my novel in late 2009. In 2011, my second draft was finished and I felt blocked. My work wasn’t where I wanted it to be, and I was struggling to figure out how to make the product match my vision. I was too close to the work: I knew how much time and effort went into each sentence and character, so I was reluctant to make the cuts that needed to be made. My solution? I shoved my manuscript into a dark filing cabinet for six months, read a lot about writing and editing, started working on my second novel’s character profiles, and thought a lot about what I want my debut novel to say about me as a writer. I pulled the manuscript back into my life at the beginning of this year.

I knew my work wasn’t yet Great Work, so I did what I needed to do to get it there. Many people in my life were worried that I was giving up on the novel. I’ve heard more than my fair share of, “You’ll never finish at this rate.” That didn’t matter: I trusted my instincts and this draft is so much better–greater–than I though was possible.

Taking the time to improve my skills was what my work needed.

Even though I don’t actively work on my novel manuscript every day at this stage and I didn’t work on the manuscript at all for six months, I’ve done something to improve my creative writing skills every day. I read great literature and think about the techniques employed. I read books about creative writing, editing, literary theory, and the English language. I blog daily, which helps me to improve the conversational tone in my writing. I write children’s stories for fun for my kids. I write poems. I do writing exercises. I write lists. I research human psychology and interaction to create more realistic characters and plots.

I’ve found that improving my skills not only makes my great work greater, but it also makes me work more efficiently. By spending time developing skills, I make a better use of the time I set aside to do my great work.

Making time for improving skills is just as important as making time for your great work directly.

Try learning a new technique, reading an expert in the field, and expanding your view of what skills may be needed to accomplish your great work. Be careful not to let your skill-building take away from your great work completely: be confident that you already have the skills to start your great work. Building skills should help you to grow, not hold you back from accomplishing your great work.


Make Your Great Work Your Priority

You can’t really make time. If you feel there’s no time for your great work, then something in your life has got to go. Think about your priorities. What do you waste time doing? What can you cut from your life? What brings you no joy?

I’ve cut a lot of things out of my life: shopping, web surfing, TV watching, money making, and commute times have been the most meaningful cuts. I still do all of these things, but I don’t let any of them take up very much of my time. I try to only focus on things that I value in my life: my family, my creative outlets, daily tasks, and my great work. I use unnecessary time wasters to relax and make sure I’m not overworked, but I don’t get too caught up in them waste away the valuable hours in my life. (Setting a timer is a good way to make sure you’re not wasting too much time on a purposeless task.)

My great work is not my top priority: my family is. I look at my small children and am very aware of the relentless passing of time. I realize that I only get this time with them once. I realize that my time with my husband is precious. I have my whole lifetime to write novels. I’m in no rush. But that does not mean that I don’t make my novel a big priority. I do want to accomplish my great work, and I make sure that it is prioritized over things in my life that do not hold great meaning to me.

Try this exercise: Write a list of all the things you do daily or weekly. Order this list, starting with the things you think are most important in your life and ending with those you don’t think are important.

Then write down the time you spend on tasks for a whole week.

Compare those two lists.

Does the time you are spending on tasks reflect your priorities?

What can you cut out to make time for your great work? Is there something missing? What life changes could you make to find greater happiness?


Take it with You

Those ten minutes in line at the grocery store or post office? That twenty minute commute? The time it takes for your lunch to be served or reheated? All of that time can be used for your great work.

When an idea for great work strikes, you want to be ready for it.

There are lots of ways I make my work portable. I can’t drag my composition books of notes everywhere with me or delve into the aspects of my work that take a great deal of focus and concentration, but I can still make use of seemingly wasted time. When I drive alone, I turn the radio off and think about my great work. At a red light or when I’ve reached my destination, I record an audio file on my cell phone and send the file to Evernote for safekeeping. I bring a notebook with me when I know I’ll be waiting in a line so I can write instead of flip through magazines. I keep my drafts on an online server so I can work on them from any computer. I write poems on napkins in restaurants while waiting for my food. I go straight for a notebook when I’m done showering.

Great ideas can come throughout your day, not just in the time you’ve allotted to do your great work. Make sure you have a way to store them until you can use them.

Think often about your great work. Infuse it into your life through thoughts as well as routine to insure that you spend your time doing your great work instead of deciding what to do.

Making time for my great work has given me fulfillment. It’s allowed me to follow my passions, to learn, to grow, and to create work that I’m proud to call my own. Even though my life seems so full sometimes it might burst at the seems, slowing down to look at the big picture of what I’d like to accomplish with my life has given me more meaning and purpose. These ways of making time for great work are simple, really. They make big dreams manageable. And that’s how great work is created.

How will you make time for your Great Work?

Megan Anderson blogs with her husband Jake at The Nerd Nest, where they share their nerdy adventures in coding, books, memory keeping, social issues, crafts, food, and everyday life with their two nerds-in-training. Be sure to join them this week for their series Megan and Jake Get It Done to find more productivity tips. Then Follow Megan on Twitter so you won’t miss what comes next!

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Are you leading a purposeful life?

Monday morning I woke up a little bit depressed because the work week was starting and I was going to (again) waste about 50+ hours out of the house at my ‘day job’.

It’s not a bad job. Annoyances like any other job, of course, but it’s stable and decent pay and not always crazy stressful.

But to me it feels like SUCH a waste of time. Without going into what I actually do, I’ll tell you I’m basically a glorified proofreader. I want to do work that matters, and I assure you that my hours spent in the car commuting and at the day job reading poorly written copy does NOT matter.

We each only have one life. One short span of 70 or 80 years if we’re lucky. That is not enough time to do everything that I really want to do. I shouldn’t be wasting it proofreading topics and work I have no attachment to.

So, a little bit depressed Monday morning thinking about having to do it all again this week.

BUT! The good news is I am not just waiting for something better to come along!

(OK, it *would* be nice if my husband got a huge raise, but it’s not as if I’m counting on that :)   )

I want to live a purposeful life – so I need to actually take the steps myself to make that happen.

Instead of just wishing and hoping I am waking up every morning – a little disappointed I still have to go to work, but – ready to start working on my future. Writing those blog posts, emailing those consulting clients, editing the photos that help promote my recent product.

It is writing I want to do. It is clients I get to CHOOSE to help. It is what I decide to put out into the world.

It is all work, but it’s MY WORK …. and I love it.

What are YOU doing?

Do you love how you’re living your life? Are you doing work that you can be proud of? Are you leading a purposeful life?

I announced the dates last week – but just a reminder that my 8-week online workshop this fall will be covering this exact topic. Are you leading a purposeful life? Are you doing work that matters? Do you know what your life’s GREAT WORK even is?

Maybe it is child care for the moms at your church. Maybe it is political consulting. It doesn’t have to be volunteer, and it doesn’t have to be a full-time income.

It just needs to be work that matters.

Make sure you’re signed up for the L&R newsletter to get pre-registration dates and a discount! Hope to see you there!

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So, uh … I don’t want to be a buzzkill or anything, but what were you planning on doing when you get off the internet?

What project are you working on? What big audacious piece of work are you in the middle of?

Your weekend project this week is to think about your GREAT WORK – your reason for being and the mark you will make on someone’s world before you die.

For an introduction to my idea of GREAT WORK, read this first link ‘I want to do work that matters‘ …. and if you’re still hungry, all the rest of these are from the L&R archives for the last year or so.

I’ve been thinking about my GREAT WORK recently, and it totally invigorates me!

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passion does not have to lead to profit

I just want to make sure we’re all clear on this concept.

Yes, it is AMAZING if your passion can turn into a full-time job for you. Yes, I do think that if you have a passion for, say … tea or jogging or vinyl records you can turn it into a profitable business (with A LOT of work. See Crush It!). And, yes, personally I am working toward building a full-time business doing what I love….

…. But I also want to remind you that it is totally (completely) great to keep your passion a hobby and not bring in the whole make-it-a-business aspect.

Think about if your passion is photography…. Owning a photography business is about 20% photography and 80% business. Even less photography if you want your business to grow and you take on associate photographers or similar.

Do you want to be thinking about BUSINESS that much? Marketing and financial goals and legal requirements and copy writing and and and and and …. Some people really enjoy that stuff (or have the money to pay other people who enjoy that stuff) … But if you don’t, turning your passion into a profit may not be for you.

Or, what if your passion – your reason for being on this earth – is to work with the Boys and Girls Club. Yes, sure, they have full-time staff who make their living working for the charity. But how many of them actually get to take the time to work with the kids on a regular basis? Are you willing to give up that interaction, that passion of yours, just so you don’t have to work in a cubicle 40 hours a week?

Only YOU can say how much not-fun duties you are willing to take on in order to make your passion – your GREAT WORK – your job.

Just remember … all that time you spend dreaming about being a full-time blogger, professional scrapbooker or paid family portrait photographer … You may only be considering the passion side of that job, and not the business-infrastructure that makes the whole thing work profitably.

My 6-week online workshop – Onward and Upward – workshop starts in just about 2 weeks and throughout the workshop, we’ll be talking about passion, our GREAT WORK, and what we were meant to do. We’ll be looking at what kind of ruts or obstacles are holding us back, and we’ll be looking at what steps need to be taken to bring more of that passion into our lives.

Check out the workshop breakdown, the list of exclusive interviews, or more registration details.


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Why do you get out of bed?

(which I recognize is kind of a strange question)

Why do you get up in the morning? Why do you go through the effort?

What’s the point?

For some of us it may be because we love taking care of our family. …. getting out of bed to make sure the kids have a healthy lunch and get to school on time is the best part of your day and you are proud to play that role in their life.

For some of us it may be because our jobs are incredibly rewarding, or fun even! … being a small business accountant really allows you to help out people in a very practical way and you can’t wait to get to the office every day.

But for some of us, maybe we just get out of bed because we have to make money to pay for the mortgage…. but if you had a choice, you would gladly stay in bed with a book all day. At least until 6p when your friends get home from work and you all can hang out laughing and eating and enjoy being together.

There’s a reason I have an Associate’s degree in 1 major and a Bachelor’s degree in another major. There’s a reason when I was younger I had about 14 different professions I wanted to be “when I grow up”. There’s a reason my ‘day job’ is without-a-doubt the worst part of my life right now (and it’s not even that bad).

I’ve been trying to figure out why I want to get out of bed every day … I love my family, I love my life and I love the possibilities every day brings.

I just need to continue to focus on my GREAT WORK… my Personal Legend. I believe that the work that I’m doing is worthwhile (and I also believe that eventually I will be rewarded with not having to work at the ‘day job’ to pay the bills).

My online workshop – Onward and Upward – will work through some of these things. We’ll talk about finding our passions and really focusing on why we were put on this earth – our reason to get out of bed every morning. This is something each person needs to wrestle with on their own, but being a part of a community all working toward the same thing can really aide in your thinking.

Registration for Onward and Upward is now open – with sessions starting October 3!

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Onward and Upward workshop breakdown

A few weeks ago I announced my new online workshopOnward and Upward: a 6-week online workshop on how to get out of that rut and take it to the next level

Today I wanted to share with you a breakdown of how those 6 weeks will be structured and some of the topics we’ll be discussing.

Who is this workshop for?

  • anyone who knows she is not doing her best
  • anyone who knows she has something more to give
  • anyone who might feel like she is floundering
  • anyone who is not sure what she wants to do in life.

Week one: You can change your life (October 3)
We’ll discuss the big ideas like how do you want to be remembered when you die and the risk of challenging assumptions. This will be the first step in moving through the rest of the workshop and it is not for the faint-of-heart.

Week two: Commit (October 10)
The second week we will be focusing on the realities and the real work that are involved in changing your life. Watching another reality show is not going to cut it. We’ll commit to ourselves, and commit to being accountable to each other. This is the week that being part of a group will really pay off (and why I may need to limit the workshop size)

Week three: Find your passion (October 17)
The third week we will start getting more specific in the direction we want to take. We’ll look at our ideal days and discuss what our cause or message might be – anything from being a mom to being a crusading environmentalist.

Week OFF to catch up and process (October 24)

Week four: Make it awesome (October 31)
During this week, we’ll talk about different inspirations and methods of doing our GREAT WORK. Maybe a charity can use your skills, maybe you are leaning toward starting a business. This week is about finding a new and memorable way to make your mark.

Week five: Get it done (November 7)
This week is about productivity. It’s about committing to the next step. It’s about FINISHING.

Week six: Onward and upward (November 14)
During the final week of Onward and Upward, we’ll talk about continuing the commitment and how to stay out of the drudge and plateaus that may have kept you down in the past.

My hope is that the workshop will end at a good time and with you in a good place for a fresh start come the beginning of 2012!

The course material will stay available for at least a year, and there are plans in place to help the workshop participants stay connected!

I’m really excited about the work we can do TOGETHER in this workshop!

Pre-registration info and discount goes out to L&R newsletter subscribers on August 22! I’d love to drop the info right into your inbox, so make sure you’re on the list!

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do what you like. repeat.

Happiness is figuring out what it is that you love to do – and then figuring out a way to do that more often.

graphic by Moritz Resl

For you, maybe it’s spending time with your kids ..

… or gardening …

… or learning …

Gary Vaynerchuk wrote a whole book on essentially figuring out what you are passionate about and making that into a business.

I am not going to go that far …. not all passions can really be leveraged into a paying gig.

Reading Jane Austen, for example.

But I do believe that there is at least 1 thing that you were put on this earth to do.

Many of us have Renaissance souls and can’t limit ourselves to just one thing….

…. but there IS at least 1 thing – activity, subject, pasttime, vocation, etc – that really is a passion and really is our GREAT WORK.

Every day I feel like I’m learning more and more and getting closer and closer to what makes me happy …

My ‘day job’ is what gets in the way of most of it.

I would be perfectly happy spending my days reading, writing, doing photography and taking care of my house and husband. (How house-wifely, I know. But I genuinely enjoy cooking…. and while I don’t particularly like cleaning I know it makes Andrew happy when I do) …

Pretty much all of my time (outside of the ‘day job’) is spent doing these things …

… and I am not at all ashamed to admit that (outside of the ‘day job’) I am so so happy….

In my new online workshop – Onward and Upward – we’ll be spending quite a bit of time figuring out what our GREAT WORK is, and figuring out how to make it a larger part of our lives.

Pre-registration will be opening in a few weeks, so make sure you’re on the mailing list for details.

 

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