If you don’t follow me on Instagram, periodically I Instagram photos of whatever book I happen to be reading on my #lunchbreak at the day job

In doing so, I regularly get requests for book reviews, and since this is the YEAR OF BRAVE, I thought Daring Greatly by Brene Brown was a perfect book to start with.DaringGreatly_cover

Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead by Brene Brown

I really liked it – but I am not sure I LOVED it.

You should still read it, but I don’t think it’s the kind of book I will want to re-read necessarily.

All of that said …. I did still REALLY like it. I took notes, and texted Kam a photo of a quote and I definitely think you should read the book.

At first, I thought it would be more self-helpy, but in fact it’s far more academic than I expected. No charts or piles of numbers or anything like that, but the whole book is built on a solid foundation of RESEARCH.

Not surprising, considering it was written by a PhD, but not necessarily what you would expect from a book about something as elusive and not-totally-measurable as vulnerability.

But, because the book is so grounded in years (and years) of careful research, you can’t help but trust what she says ….

….. and what she says is living a brave life, living wholehearedly and embracing vulnerability, is a key to happiness.

The book includes chapters on parenting and work-leadership (a la CEOs, etc), and begins with a quote from Theodore Roosevelt:

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly… “

Some big takeaways from the book ….

What is worth doing even if I fail?

The journey and the learning and the doing involved, even if the end result doesn’t work out. Even the tiny things I’m trying to do every week to be brave are worth doing … just to get in the habit of getting out of my comfort zone regularly. As Brown writes, “The willingness to show up changes us. It makes us a little braver each time” (42).

This is a reminder to do and try anyway.

Our inner critic is a gremlin.

That little voice that tells me I’m not smart enough, or talented enough or good enough will just multiply in your head …. unless you shine bright lights on it and stay aware of it. Brown offers examples and ideas for silencing that inner voice.

Often we are more critical of ourselves than anyone else is.

For example, I don’t personally think I’m a great singer …. but enough people have told me I am that I have to believe it. Or at least accept it. But if I kept my voice just to myself I would always think it was just OK instead of sharing it with others. (I hope that makes sense)

Growing is uncomfortable.

Lean into. This is something I need to remember for this fall’s Onward and Upward workshop.

“The big challenge for leaders [or bloggers or teachers, etc] is getting our heads and hearts around the fact that we need to cultivate the courage to be uncomfortable and to teach the people around us how to accept discomfort as a part of growth” (199).

My favorite quote from the book ….

“I explained that I had spent many years never trying anything that I wasn’t already good at doing, and how those choices almost made me forget what it feels like to be brave. I said, ‘Sometimes the bravest and most important thing you can do is just show up’”(243) – which is why if you tell me that signing up for an art journaling class is brave I BELIEVE YOU. If you tell me that initiating a conversation with another mom while waiting to pick up your kids is brave, I WILL CHEER YOU ON.

Brave - Brene Brown

Sometimes the bravest and most important thing you can do is just show up.

Or start.

Or finish.

Bravery is different for everyone ….

In the end …. reading this book helped me remember WHY I want to dare greatly. I knew I wanted to be brave this year, but this refocused on why that is important.

I think Brene Brown is super smart and incredibly fascinating, and I’ve already added all her other books to my to-read list.

PLUS: She’ll be on 2 episodes of Oprah’s Super Soul Sundays which should be fantastic. Make sure you check those out.

More reviews from around the web:

P.S. Don’t forget to check out her downloads and badges associated with the book

Have you read Daring Greatly? What did you think?

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a seed of inspiration: Wired for Story

I’m kind of obsessed with storytelling at the moment.

I’m not totally sure when it started. I’ve been listening to The Moth and This American Life for years and years. I read A Million Miles in a Thousand Years last fall.

But then I read Wired for Story:The Writer’s Guide to Using Brain Science to Hook Readers from the Very First Sentence by story consultant Lisa Cron –  and I’m in love.

{How does one get to be a story consultant? I want that job.}

A few weeks ago I read the book in about 2 days. 2 days in which I was at work for 16 hours and driving at least 4 hours. And sleeping.

So, you know. I read it pretty quickly, considering.

I don’t remember WHERE I first heard about this book, or from whom, but I only heard good things about it. So since I was trying to write fiction I thought it would be a good book to get. To sit on my shelf next to On Writing and Bird by Bird.

At the time I read Wired for Story, I had recently finished a NaNoWriMo sprint, working on the first draft of my first novel.

When I started writing that manuscript, I only had a vague idea of where the story would go, so by the time I hit 50,000 words (around the time I read Wired for Story), I could see where all the story holes were, all the slow parts, all the story sections that needed some substantial rehauling (spoiler: nearly all of it).

From the back of the book:

“Imagine knowing what the brain craves from every tale it encounters, what fuels the success of any great story, and what keeps readers transfixed. Wired for Story reveals these cognitive secrets – and it’s a game-changer for anyone who has ever set pen to paper.

The vast majority of writing advice focuses on ‘writing well’ as if it were the same as telling a great story. This is exactly where many aspiring writers fail – they strive for beautiful metaphors, authentic dialogue, and interesting characters, losing sight of the one thing that every engaging story must do: ignite the brain’s hardwired desire to learn what happens next. When writers tap into the evolutionary purpose of story and electrify our curiosity, it triggers a delicious dopamine rush that tells us to pay attention. Without it, even the most perfect prose won’t hold anyone’s interest.”

Not only do the principles in this book apply to my great novel-writing adventure, but I would love if I could apply them to longer-form journaling in my memory keeping. Particularly in my travel-Blurb books, for example. Or for whenever I get around to re-journaling my high school years.

Chapter titles include: How to Hook the Reader, How to Zero in on Your Point (a personal favorite as I think this is an easy thing to miss), and The Road from Setup to Payoff.

I really really loved this book. For so many reasons.

It’s accessible (to me, at least. But I have a Masters degree in Literature so now that I think about it maybe it’s not accessible but I just speak the language. Hmmm).

It’s smart (again, zeroing in on the point. Nobody cares what color car she drives unless it comes up later in the story).

I learned a lot. A LOT. If you are even a little bit interested in storytelling and story structure, read this book.

I’m a little bit obsessed with the idea of storytelling anyway – after listening to The Moth and watching The Lord of the Rings Special Features so many times (you don’t want to know how many).

This is the perfect Storytelling 101 book if that is something you’re interested in. Or, if you want to tighten up your scrapbook journaling. Or if you want to get better at telling stories at parties or something like that.

I can’t wait to read it again. I’ve already recommended Wired for Story to 3 or 4 different people.

Reading Wired for Story plants a seed of inspiration to:

  • Write more. Write often. Write better.
  • Scrap everything I have and start over (not going to do that, don’t worry)
  • Read Joseph Campbell and other story-structure gurus
  • Re-read Wired for Story again slowly. And again and again with my trusty orange pen.
  • Develop outlines for some of the other novel ideas I have.
  • LIVE more stories – and then practice telling them at parties. Or The Moth.

Other recommended resources for fiction writers (non-books)

Any others?

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How to read a book a week

Cancel your cable service

Log in to your Goodreads account regularly to remind yourself of all the amazing books out there that you have not yet read

Get a library card and remove the financial obstacle to reading a lot

Be interested in a variety of topics

Read the ‘new books’ sections of magazines (they’re everywhere from US Weekly to Vanity Fair) and find something new to get excited about

But be OK with quitting books partway through and moving to something that interests you more

Carry a purse/bag large enough to hold a book (or ereader) – and carry one with you all the time

Keep a pile(s) of to-read books visible in your home (I have 3 piles throughout the house)

Build 10 minutes of in-bed reading into your nightly routine

Always have a book at work for your lunch breaks

Know which writers you love and seek out all their works

Borrow books (from friends or the library) with a deadline to have them read and returned

Find enjoyment in many different styles of writing (be easy to please)

Revel in those guilty pleasure books (for me it’s true crime)

Tweet/Instagram/blog/Facebook whatever you’re reading and get encouragement and moral support in return.

Take public transportation (or carpool) when you can, and read while someone else drives

Give entire days off over to reading when possible

Pick out a ‘reading chair’ or other corner of your home where you can comfortably curl up for any length of time, secluded, with a spot for your beverage of choice nearby

Commit to a reading goal (like a book a week or learning everything you can about the Revolutionary War)

Read even more. The more you read the faster you get at it.

What are your tricks for reading more every week?

In 2012 I read 68 books – more than a book a week. 2013: here I come!

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Summer reading list

Summer is for reading!

When I was growing up I TORE through the Babysitters’ Club books …. there were well-over 100 at the time.

Now, of course, I have far less time but I still love piling up a stack of what-I-want-to-read-next books ….

As of now (end of May), here is my tentative Summer 2012 reading list:

In no particular order:

(affiliate links and book descriptions from Amazon)

Herzog by Saul Bellow

I read this novel in an American Lit class as an undergrad and all I remember about the book is that I loved it. It was about 8 years ago or so, so I figured it’s about time I re-read it!

In one of his finest achievements, Nobel Prize winner Saul Bellow presents a multifaceted portrait of a modern-day hero, a man struggling with the complexity of existence and longing for redemption.

Aspects of the Novel by E.M. Forster

E.M. Forster is one of my FAVORITE authors, and throughout my college years many (many) of my Literature professors cite this book about the novel by Forster. Yes, I love academia and yes, this book sounds right up my alley.

E. M. Forster’s renowned guide to writing sparkles with wit and insight for contemporary writers and readers. With lively language and excerpts from well-known classics, Forster takes on the seven elements vital to a novel: story, people, plot, fantasy, prophecy, pattern, and rhythm. He not only defines and explains such terms as “round” versus “flat” characters (and why both are needed for an effective novel), but also provides examples of writing from such literary greats as Dickens and Austen. Forster’s original commentary illuminates and entertains without lapsing into complicated, scholarly rhetoric, coming together in a key volume on writing that avoids chronology and what he calls “pseudoscholarship.”

The Tin Can Tree by Anne Tyler

Anne Tyler – another fiction author I was introduced to in an American Lit class as an undergrad – is one of my favorites. So much so that I intend to buy and read every single one of her books. This is just one of many.

In the small town of Larksville, the Pike family is hopelessly out of step with the daily rhythms of life after the tragic, accidental death of six-year-old Janie Rose. Mrs. Pike seldom speaks, blaming herself, while Mr. Pike is forced to come out of his long, comfortable silence. Then there is ten-year-old Simon, who is suddenly without a baby sister — and without understanding why she’s gone.Those closest to this shattered family must learn to comfort them — and confront their own private shadows of hidden grief. If time cannot draw them out of the dark, then love may be their only hope….

Morgan’s Passing by Anne Tyler

Again. Anne Tyler. I love her. If I wrote novels they would have this kind of flavor.

Morgan Gower works at Cullen’s hardware store in north Baltimore. He has seven daughters and a warmhearted wife, but as he journeys into the gray area of middle age, he finds his household growing tedious. Then Morgan meets two lovely young newlyweds under some rather extreme circumstances–and all three discover that no one’s heart is safe….

The General and Mrs. Washington by Bruce Chadwick

I’m still working through my American History self-paced class, but haven’t yet read anything about Martha Washington. Every other week or so I tend to crave American history.

Here is the story of the fateful marriage of the richest woman in Virginia and the man who could have been king. In telling their story, Chadwick explains not only their remarkable devotion to each other, but why the wealthiest couple in Virginia became revolutionaries who risked the loss of their vast estates and their very lives.

The FireStarter Sessions by Danielle LaPorte

I adore her. I think Danielle LaPorte is incredibly inspiring and I’m excited to learn more from her.

The Fire Starter Sessions is an apathy-kicking, integrity-infusing guide to defining success on your own terms.

As the creator of DanielleLaPorte.com–deemed “the best place online for kick-ass spirituality,” Danielle LaPorte’s straight-talk life-and-livelihood sermons have been read by over one million people. Bold but empathetic, she reframes popular self-help and success concepts:

: Life balance is a myth, and the pursuit of it is causing us more stress then the craving for balance itself.
: Being well-rounded is over-rated. When you focus on developing your true strengths, you enter your mastery zone.
: Screw your principles (they might be holding you back).
: We have ambition backwards. Getting clear on how you want to feel in your life + work is more important than setting goals. It’s the most potent form of clarity that you can have, and it’s what leads to true fulfillment.

I am Murdered by Bruce Chadwick

Another American History book. More fringe-topic than your standard presidential biography.

George Wythe clung to the mahogany banister as he inched down the staircase of his comfortable Richmond, Virginia, home. Doubled over in agony, he stumbled to the kitchen in search of help. There he found his maid, Lydia Broadnax, and his young protegé, Michael Brown, who were also writhing in distress. Hours later, when help arrived, Wythe was quick to tell anyone who would listen, “I am murdered.” Over the next two weeks, as Wythe suffered a long and painful death, insults would be added to his mortal injury.

I Am Murdered tells the bizarre true story of Wythe’s death and the subsequent trial of his grandnephew and namesake, George Wythe Sweeney, for the crime—unquestionably the most sensational and talked-about court case of the era. Hinging on hit-and-miss forensics, the unreliability of medical autopsies, the prevalence of poisoning, race relations, slavery, and the law, Sweeney’s trial serves as a window into early nineteenth- century America. Its particular focus is on Richmond, part elegant state capital and part chaotic boomtown riddled with vice, opportunism, and crime.

As Wythe lay dying, his doctors insisted that he had not been poisoned, and Sweeney had the nerve to beg him for bail money. In I Am Murdered, this signer of the Declaration of Independence, mentor to Thomas Jefferson, and “Father of American Jurisprudence” finally gets the justice he deserved.

Henry Clay by David S. Heidler and Jeanne T. Heidler

Henry Clay is one of those peripheral American History characters that you know by name but have only a vague idea why. I learned a *tiny* bit about him when reading about John Quincy Adams, so this is a great next step.

He was the Great Compromiser, a canny and colorful legislator whose life mirrors the story of America from its founding until the eve of the Civil War. Speaker of the House, senator, secretary of state, five-time presidential candidate, and idol to the young Abraham Lincoln, Henry Clay is captured in full at last in this rich and sweeping biography.

David S. Heidler and Jeanne T. Heidler present Clay in his early years as a precocious, witty, and optimistic Virginia farm boy who at the age of twenty transformed himself into an attorney. The authors reveal Clay’s tumultuous career in Washington, including his participation in the deadlocked election of 1824 that haunted him for the rest of his career, and shine new light on Clay’s marriage to plain, wealthy Lucretia Hart, a union that lasted fifty-three years and produced eleven children.

Featuring an inimitable supporting cast including Thomas Jefferson, James Madison, and Abraham Lincoln, Henry Clay is beautifully written and replete with fresh anecdotes and insights. Horse trader and risk taker, arm twister and joke teller, Henry Clay was the consummate politician who gave ground, made deals, and changed the lives of millions.

Also on my list if I can get the time: The Great Gatsby, Sunset Magazine, maybe some Steinbeck and Vanity Fair (magazine)

A couple other summer reading lists from around the web:

Do you have big reading plans for this summer?

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Self-education for the new year

I know a lot of people make resolutions to “READ MORE BOOKS” for the new year …

I never do. Because I’m a crazy voracious reader already. If anything I should read fewer books, and honestly, if I read fewer books I would have more time to do things like … clean the house.

Which I currently only do if forced to.

But!

If you are one of those who wants to read more books this year, good for you! Obviously I am firmly in support of that goal :)

Here are a couple fun resources to help aid your book-reading/self-education resolutions:

Goodreads:

I only recently joined Goodreads on the recommendation of Andrew. Come be my Goodreads friend if you have that inclination.

My primary goal on Goodreads is JUST to keep track of what books I read, although there is also a great recommendations section if you are looking for more books similar to what you have read and liked. You can also follow your friends’ reviews for more book recommendations.

This is a great resource if you know you want to read more but don’t know where to start.

Kindle books :

I don’t know if you’re aware of this, but there are tons and tons (and tons) of FREE ebooks available on Amazon. And not JUST the old, no-longer-copywritten books. Some books by authors who just want to get their name out, some books sponsored by big companies. …. as well as some old classics.

Plus! If you don’t own a Kindle, you can simply download the Kindle app for another device: iPhone, Android, PC and more

Non-books:

MIT OpenCourseWare :

This is something new I just found in the last week or so …. Apparently MIT is putting some or all of their lectures and other course material online for free! Which is kind of amazing!

I’ll probably check out some of the History or Media offerings (steer clear from Engineering and such)….

Just on a quick glance, it looks like MIT is offering material for both undergraduate and graduate classes – some available classes offer lecture notes, assignments, online textbooks and other goodies that you would normally have in a university class. Just as an example, the Media in Cultural Context course download includes the full syllabus and reading list (along with links to buy the books on Amazon), as well as the assignment list (if you feel like writing a paper for fun).

As soon as Andrew and I are super-rich I’m planning on going back to school for fun…. Getting the syllabus for a new class was always my favorite part of school …. Until then this might hold me over.

Podcasts:

Discussed already here and here … I’m a BIG fan…

iTunes University:

I personally have not used iTunes University yet (partly because I already subscribe to 12 or so podcasts and partly because I don’t even have the time to listen to all of those). Essentially various universities have put lectures and course material online via iTunes. Personally, I am planning on using iTunes University to someday learn Spanish.

 SO, what are you reading right now? What do you want to learn about in 2012?

P.S. I wrote up this post while talking books with my dad. It’s his fault that I read this much. Not that I mind …. Since he is also a crazy reader I get to borrow a bunch of books for him (most of which I have bought for him)

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I recently read Traveling with Pomegranates: A Mother-Daughter Story by Sue Monk Kidd and Ann Kidd Taylor on the recommendation of Carrie.

I love travel and I (just discovered I) love writers’ memoirs, so it turned out to be a good fit!

From the inside book jacket flap:

Sue Monk Kidd has touched the hearts of millions of readers with her beloved novels, The Secret Life of Bees and The Mermaid Chair, and her acclaimed nonfiction. Now, in this wise and intimate dual memoir, she and her daughter, Ann, a writer making her affecting debut in these pages, chronicle their travels together and offer their distinct perspectives as a fifty-something and a twenty-something, each on a quest to redefine herself and rediscover each other.

Between 1998 and 2000, Sue and Ann travel together to sacred sites throughout Greece and France. Sue, newly aware of aging, caught in a creative vacuum, and longing to reconnect with her now grown daughter, struggles to find the wherewithal to enalrge a vision of swarming bees into a novel. Ann, just graduated from college, heartbroken and benumbed by the classic question about what to do with her life, grapples with a painful depression. The intimacy of travel and the wondrous nature of the places Sue and Ann visit bring forth each woman’s internal struggle and provide fertile terrain for reflection and inspiration. In voices candid and lyrical, this modern-day Demeter and Persephone explore the richly symbolic and personal meaning of an array of inspiring figures and sacred sites in Atehns and Eleusis, Paris and Rocamadour, and places in between. They also give voice to a moving transformation of that most protean of human connections: the bond of mothers and daughters.

I’ve got to be honest with you … this book is a little …. I don’t know the word. It’s a little too sensitive for me. I’m just not the type to spend my traveling time in Paris journaling about my feelings.

I can see myself writing a travel memoir – I love to travel – but I can’t imagine it would be quite this personal.

And that is one of the over-arching takeaways of this book – it is an extremely personal look at the two women’s interior lives. Yes, it is about traveling to Greece, but it is more about how the Greek mythology spoke to their personal struggles. Yes, it is about traveling to Paris, but it is more about how the Virgin Mary in Parisian cathedrals really helped draw out and solidify their personal dreams.

The mother-daughter team are able to reconnect on a personal level because of their travels, but I didn’t really feel the actual culture of place coming through. Instead, I am now intimately familiar with the myth of Persephone. While Greek, of course, I don’t feel like I know Greece any better through this memoir.

And I would say the same about Paris. Both women have intense realizations in Paris, through their unlooked-for connection with the Black Madonna. But, honestly, that Black Madonna could be anywhere. She could have told me it was in Kentucky and I might have believed her. The culture of Paris was not really represented.

But, in all fairness, the book doesn’t *necessarily* claim to be a travel memoir. I guess they are just using the travel as a springboard for the bigger issues both are dealing with.

I should also say, though, that half-way through reading this book I got a brilliant idea for a travel memoir of my own. I really would love to make this happen, but considering that it would involve quite a bit of international travel , I don’t have the pennies to make it happen any time soon.

I actually really enjoyed this book, and have already added it to my Amazon wishlist for the future.

I have recently discovered that I really enjoy reading writers’ memoirs. First was Bird by Bird, then A Moveable Feast and now this. Next, I really should read On Writing by Stephen King. And I’m fairly certain I have memoirs by Nabokov and L.M. Montgomery. And *possibly* by Edith Wharton or Louisa May Alcott. Maybe.

Evidently consciously or unconsciously I want to be a writer.

That’s really something to explore in a post of it’s own, but nevertheless I very much enjoyed the writing-bits of this memoir. The mother (Sue) is just getting used to the idea that she can write a novel (The Secret Life of Bees), and the daughter (Ann) is just getting used to the idea that it’s OK to want to be a writer as well (that it’s not necessarily ‘copying’ her mother).

It’s interesting.

I love Ann’s approach to learning to be a writer as an ‘apprenticeship’ and giving herself 7 years of writing and learning and not being afraid she is failing because clearly she is still in the ‘learning’ phase.

I think that is an admirable approach to ANY creative work.

I wish I had 7 years of full-time apprenticeship available to me for any number of skills!

Anyway – thank you Carrie for recommending this book!

Reading Traveling with Pomegranates plants a seed of inspiration to:

  • Travel. Obviously.
  • To Greece and to Paris and back to Rome and so many other places.
  • Read The Secret Life of Bees. Is it good? Have you read it?
  • Read more writers’ memoirs. I have ‘Lit’ by someone I can’t remember on hold at the library.
  • Travel with my mom. She loves to travel. It could be fun!
  • Write. Obviously. One of the 2 novels I’ve had in my head for years or the travel memoir I just thought of or some kind of history book.

 

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good reads : books that inspire

Just a quick list of some of the books that are a constant inspiration to me. Because I love to read. Always. And interestingly, most of these inspire me to write:

Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov

Lolita is hands-down my favorite novel (aside from the Anne of Green Gables series). I’ve read it probably 4 or 5 times, including for a college class. I have 3 copies of this novel too – an old, tattered version that was originally Andrew’s, a newer version all notated with orange pen from my college class, and a still newer, professionally annotated version.

I fully recognize that the surface subject matter of Lolita is a turn-off for some people. That said, I love love reading this novel if only for the amazing use of language and writing style from Nabokov. *Especially* remarkable if you remember that this novel was originally written in English – Nabokov’s third language! Incredible.

I actually want to read ALL of Nabokov’s work – because I think he’s brilliant – and while I’ve read maybe 4 or 5 of his novels, Lolita is still my favorite. This book inspires me to write myself, and sets an incredibly  high standard that I can’t imagine ever being able to meet.

Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life by Anne Lamott

Bird by Bird is a memoir by a professional writer. We got this book from the library, and as soon as I had finished reading it, I ordered myself a copy and can’t wait to re-read it!

I don’t know what it is about writers’ memoirs and stories…. I love the idea of writing, I love the struggle that writers deal with on a daily basis. I know I’m probably romanticizing the whole profession, but I really enjoy reading about writing.

This book really inspires me to write, as well. Something about this memoir helps strengthen my belief that I COULD write a novel – if I were ever to start.

It’s a quick, entertaining read and I would definitely recommend it – especially if you have any interest in writing.

A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller

A Million Miles in a Thousand Years is also a memoir by a professional writer. It is (roughly) about what Miller learned about story-telling while helping to write the movie based on one of his other memoirs. But rather than be about writing itself, this book is more about living a life worthy of story-telling.

I love the constant reminder of living great stories. This book fully reminds me to get out of the house, not sit at home watching TV and continue to do great work.

Moneyball by Michael Lewis

This book is on the list, because this is the most recent book I’ve read, but really I just love the whole writing career of Michael Lewis. I’ve read The Big Short and I can’t wait to read Liar’s Poker, and The Blind Side and all of them. All are a kind of investigative, long-term journalistic writing pieces.

I now find myself paying even more attention to the people and stories all around me, searching out for that story to investigate and write myself. For example, my husband’s boss is actually kind of a prodigy and outlier in his industry. I think his story is fascinating.

If you’re a non-fiction fan at all, you should definitely check out one or more of Michael Lewis’s books.

The Beatles by Bob Spitz

I’ve only read this book once, but as soon as I finished it I immediately placed this book right back on my to-read pile. I loved it that much.

This is a pretty comprehensive biography of the band – with *some* background in each of the guys’ childhoods. But for the most part, I am really inspired by the music and the creative process and the art that makes up the history of The Beatles. I love the reminder of the creative side of such a popular band. Especially The Beatles.

For whatever reason, when I was reading this book I just felt inspired to MAKE art … art journal or paint or something. I don’t really know where that connection comes in, but this book was super inspiring to me. The stories behind it just make the art of that music that much more personal and real for me. Ex: The Beatles’ recording of ‘Twist and Shout’ was recorded last in the day because John Lennon had a cold and that song shredded his voice. He did it in one take and you can absolutely hear that in the recording. Fascinating….

Have you read any of these? What are some of your favorite inspiring books?

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a seed of inspiration: A Moveable Feast

Last week, over just a couple days, I read A Moveable Feast by Ernest Hemingway.

LOVED it.

Ok, I know Hemingway isn’t for everyone.

His terse, straight-forward,  style can take some getting used to. In this book, he actually mentions how someone taught him to consider adjectives the enemy.

Hemingway writes his fiction to SHOW you about the place and characters, rather than TELL you (with adjectives, adverbs and the like).

It’s very interesting….

However: this is a memoir, not fiction. That may make a difference in your interest.

Here’s a bit of the history (from Wikipedia):

[This memoir is] about his years in Paris as part of the American expatriate circle of writers in the 1920s. The book describes Hemingway’s apprenticeship as a young writer in Europe (especially in Paris) during the 1920s with his first wife, Hadley. Some of the later prominent people who are featured in his memoirs include Aleister Crowley, Ezra Pound, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Ford Madox Ford, Hilaire Belloc, Pascin, John Dos Passos, Wyndham Lewis, James Joyce and Gertrude Stein.

The memoir consists of Hemingway’s personal accounts, observations, and stories of his experience in 1920s Paris. He provides specific addresses of cafes, bars, hotels, and apartments, some of which can be found in modern-day Paris.

I love that this book references actual places in Paris …Plus it’s so short and easy-to-read, it’s the perfect book to read on your flight across the pond on your way to Paris.

Um, yea. Very (very) tentative plan to head over to there Spring 2013. We’ll see.

Big chunks of this memoir deal with his interaction with other writers and artists that he meets in Paris.

The chapter+ about F. Scott Fitzgerald is just fascinating…. and a little heart-breaking. I won’t spoil it for those of you who will read it, but if you know anything about Fitzgerald’s life I’m sure you can imagine.

There’s bits about Gertrude Stein, and poet Ezra Pound… and more.

And then …. on top of all of this … Hemingway drops little hints about his writing style in a few places.

Ex: He specifies that he will write all day and not stop until he knows what the next scene/event will be.

P.S. My copy I found at a $1 bookstore. But apparently, there’s a new “restored” edition, that I need to find somewhere….

reading A Moveable Feast by Ernest Hemingway plants a seed of inspiration to:

  • travel to Paris. Obviously.
  • become a novelist (in Paris). I’ve never really felt short-storyish, but novels I feel like are more up my alley
  • write a travel memoir – but, I’ll need to travel more to do that :)
  • read another Hemingway biography …. and/or a Fitzgerald biography
  • read more Hemingway. I’ve read his BIG novels, but not all, and not many short stories.
  • read more F. Scott Fitzgerald (looking forward to the new Great Gatsby movie, btw)
  • read some Gertrude Stein. I really don’t know anything about her.
  • read some Ezra Pound
  • read more writers biographies/memoirs. I just read Bird by Bird a few months ago and it too made me want to sit down and write

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a seed of inspiration: The Help

I pretty much trust whatever Vanity Fair tells me :) …. I love that magazine.

Back last summer, Vanity Fair did a short profile on several new young female authors, including Kathryn Stockett (who wrote The Help) … So this book has been on my on my to-read book list for several months…

But then I found out that they’re making The Help into a movie, so I knew I needed to read it before the movie came out and all the book covers got ruined by actors’ faces! :)

I picked up the book Saturday morning from the library … and in spite of the fact that my Before-We-Leave-for-Vacation to-do list is a mile and a half long… By Sunday night I was more than halfway done.

Good lord – I love a good book!

I cried reading the book.

I cried watching the trailer.

Oh, heavens. I’m just a mess.

From Wikipedia:

The Help is a 2009 novel by American author Kathryn Stockett. It is about African American maids working in white households in Jackson, Mississippi during the early 1960s.

The novel is told from the point of view of three narrators: Aibileen Clark, a middle-aged African-American maid who has spent her life raising white children, and who has recently lost her only son; Minny Jackson, an African-American maid whose back-talk towards her employers results in her having to frequently change jobs, exacerbating her desperate need for work as well as her family’s struggle with money; and Eugenia “Skeeter” Phelan, a young white woman and recent college graduate who, after moving back home, discovers that a maid that helped raise her since childhood has abruptly disappeared and her attempts to find her have come to nought. The stories of the three women intertwine to explain how life in Jackson, Mississippi revolves around “the help”, with complex relations of power, money, emotion, and intimacy tying together the white and black families of Jackson.

Now all I want to do is read more mid-century fiction.

I cannot get enough of American history and culture and style from about 1939 to about 1967 or so …

I love John Updike’s fiction, Nabokov, what else? what am I missing? what are your suggestions?

The historical and political context of the book is what really gives the story risk and heightens the tension, but the relationships between all the (primarily female) characters is what really draws you in.

As of the typing of this post I’m only halfway through, but I CANNOT WAIT to see how it ends….

Growing up in Southern California in the 80s, the kind of neighborhoods and interactions depicted in this book are completely foreign to me – and I’m not even talking about the Jim Crow laws. But the women hiring help to watch their kids,  cook their food and shine their silver? … while they just loll about the house on the phone. … ? Absurd.

And all that southern food described? I wouldn’t even know what to do with that much Crisco :) !

Totally aside from the book …. I’m looking forward to the movie as well:

I think it came out this week? Last week?

We don’t ever go to the theater, so I have no idea :)

The cast: Emma Stone (I think I love her. She’s kind of adorable), Bryce Dallas Howard (love love), Octavia Spencer (I love her, but I have no idea what I’ve seen her in)…. even Sissy Spacek and Allison Janney!

Very exciting!

And, of course, it doesn’t hurt that the movie is going to be full of those amazing mid-century styles that I am just in love with!

All I want is one of those 1962 dresses. Or 4 or 7 of them :)

Film trailer:

What do you think? Have you read The Help?

reading The Help plants a seed of inspiration to:

  • Visit the South. I’ve never been. … Someday
  • Learn more about civil rights. I can’t wait to get to the 20th century in my self-created American History class
  • re-read Lolita. And my John Updikes. And any other mid-century fiction I have
  • write mid-century-era fiction. I got some ideas :)
  • watch American Dreams. One of my favorites. I could watch and rewatch these 3 little TV seasons over and over …
  • see the movie when it comes out. Do you think it’s too early to add to my Netflix queue?
  • watch Mad Men. Obviously.
  • add the book to my Amazon wishlist – since I’m pretty sure I’ll want to re-read it
  • keep an eye on Kathryn Stockett…. See what she writes next.

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  • Alaska by James Michener. I was almost 1/2 way done when our vacation was over…. and still had about 600 pages to go!
  • Rick Steves Scotland guide book. We have a basic itinerary planned … now I’m just re-reading to get in the mindset
  • my brother’s short stories. Ok. Not *yet* … but he’s going to email them to me. Can’t wait til that boy is published!

 

 

 

  • Six Feet Under Season 1. My ‘day job’ co-worker and carpool partner and I talk TV shows all the time. He will be loaning us this show season-by-season. Jeremy Sisto has always freaked me out, but never more so than in this show!
  • Rick Steves Scotland/Great Britain episodes. My love Angela has a whole collection and loaned us the discs for our up-coming trip.
  • video captured in Alaska. Andrew did quite a bit, so it’s been fun to see what he saw …

 

 

 

 

  • The Book of Mormon broadway soundtrack. Amazon had a digital download of $1 or $2 a few weeks ago. Just before this show won a WHOLE bunch of Tonys. It’s fantastic!
  • Travel with Rick Steves podcasts. Dreaming of Scotland and future vacations. Sensing a theme?
  • Whatever obscure, hyper-musically-technical music my carpool partner has in the car. Some of this stuff is a bit insane as far as what the drummer is able to do!

 

 

 

  • furiously editing Alaska photos. I took about 35 GBs of (RAW) photos. … Which means my harddrive is pretty much full, until I can edit and backup those photos. But I need the room on my harddrive for about 40GBs of Scotland photos in a month. Thus my furiously editing.
  • Planning and making some DIY projects for 30 days of lists! SO fun! Wait til you see!
  • Finalizing details for my first online class. To be announced very very soon!
  • buying/cutting up pounds and pounds of fresh fruit for summer…. Pretty sure I could live off this.

What are you all up to?

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