Creative challenge: 30 Days of Lists

Next Tuesday — one week from today — my favorite creative challenge begins again!

As a fun little warm-up to September’s challenge, we are hosting a blog hop!

I recently went on a coast-to-coast road trip (with cats!) so I had this list prompt down pat. No problem. In fact, before I even thought about this blog hop, I had been making notes to myself about what my road trip must-haves would be for next time.

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This simple 3×4 journaling card will go in my Project Life spreads about that trip.

Supplies:

Some of our sponsors and ambassadors have posted about 30 Days of Lists today, so click through to each of their sites to see what they are Listing!

Best part? You are all invited to join us too. It is super easy to participate in the blog hop and any one can join in!

Here’s how to join:
— Visit the 30 Days of Lists March 2011 challenge site and choose a list prompt
— Complete your list prompt however you choose (digital, in your planner, elaborate 12×12 layout, art journaling, anything!)
— Post on your blog (or Instagram or somewhere else online)
— Leave a link to your list post in a comment HERE on our Facebook page!

Then, of course, be sure to click through to see how everyone else is listing.

We can’t wait to see what you make! And be sure you register to join us in September

P.S. I’m posting at Yes to New Adventures on tumblr

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Review: Prosperity for Writers ecourse and ebook

In January, I decided my current Core Desired Feelings are : Valued, Affluent and Brave.

Let’s talk about that middle one — I want to feel affluent. I don’t need Donald Trump money. I don’t even need to go shopping every week. I just want to FEEL like I have enough abundance and wealth in my life that I can support my vlogger friend, or not have to scrimp and save for a short weekend away.

I just want enough to not have to worry all the time. THAT would make me feel affluent.

Skip to May …. I had met business coach Honorée Corder at a conference and shortly afterward I took a 4-week course with her called Prosperity for Writers.

LOVED IT SO MUCH …. official description here:

Do you feel like you’re stuck in a “starving artist” mentality? What do you need in order to increase income, productivity, happiness, and overall success?

The Prosperity for Writers Course is the first program for writers that addresses, and eliminates, the cultural assumption that writers must struggle, strain and strive. This course teaches you to tap into the abundance mentality that best-sellers and rich, successful writers are already accessing, and it gives you practical, tangible action steps you will enjoy taking as you increase your productivity and your income.

I loved this course …. and now the author — Honorée Corder — has put the same information into a $5 ebook and you MUST purchase it. I guarantee it is not just for writers. If you are a creator trying to make money from your art this book will help you.

Prosperity for Writers by Honoree CorderI read an advanced copy of the book …. basically as fast as possible. I can’t wait to re-read it.

Grab the ebook here — it comes out today!

The course and ebook are NOT “how to budget” or “how to price your writing” or “what retirement accounts to open”. Nothing as nuts and bolts as that.

Instead you’ll deeply examine your mentality and attitude toward money, you’ll consider what your obstacles are keeping you from being more prosperous, and (most of all) you will COMMIT to changing those things.

The course and ebook are not even specifically for writers.

Corder uses writers as examples throughout the book, but any entrepreneur, any creator, anyone trying to move past a bi-weekly paycheck can benefit from the teaching in this book.

I really do love it. I will be getting the paperback copy so I can make notes, dog ear pages and really get involved in the text itself.

Grab your copy here

P.S. I’ve got a super personal email going out tomorrow morning about money and prosperity. Make sure you’re on the list if you want to read that.

Note: I am NOT an affiliate for this course, but the book link is my Amazon affiliate link

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What to do when your life falls apart

You have probably noticed I haven’t been blogging very recently. You may also have noticed some changes to what I’ve been posting on social media.

The short version is — I am getting a divorce. Because my husband no longer wants to be married.

Of course there is a lot more to it than that, and of course this was not a quick or easy decision. In fact, accepting this will be the best thing for me and actually walking away is the hardest thing I have ever had to do in my life.

But essentially …. 2015 has been the worst year of my life, everything that I thought I had and knew is wrong, the foundation of everything in my life is now up-ended. Everything has changed. Everything is different. I am starting over completely.

So what do I do now? Now that I am starting over? 

  1. Make a plan — There were months of uncertainty and anxiety and through it all the only thing I knew for sure was what I would do if/when my marriage truly ended. I needed that lifeline. I needed that plan, those guideposts. Even if it changed or never came to pass, I needed that 1 thing I could control. My plan.
    That plan ended up changing a bit over the last few months, but I always had that list to come back to to reground myself.
    And now that that scenario has come up, I was 200% better prepared to meet it when it finally did.
  2. Be gentle with yourself — I haven’t been blogging because I’m depressed and anxious. Plain and simple. I can’t focus on anything work-related, I don’t have any energy. I need a lot of time.
    I’m ok with it. I’ve been going for more walks. I’ve been indulging myself by buying $6 kindle books if I want one. I’ve been giving myself permission to miss deadlines.
    I certainly can’t do everything I had been doing before my life fell apart, so I’m giving myself a pass. I’m looking forward to getting back to myself, but in the meantime I know it’s ok that I’m not.
  3. Stay positive — I had so many hopes for our married life together, and now that it’s over I have made a concerted effort to form new hopes. I’ve started researching tips for women traveling alone, I’ve planned a couple hypothetical road trips, I’ve looked at house prices in different cities where I might want to move. …. Not a lot. And nothing definite. But better than nothing.
  4. Ask for help — or if you’re more like me, accept the help that is offered. Friends gave me so much slack on missed deadlines and missed project. My boss told me to take as much time off as I needed and my other boss offered to write Andrew into a book and then kill him in a violent manner. Even Andrew’s family offered to come help pack stuff if I wanted them to.

And, you guys? I need help.

I no longer have a husband, roommate, travel partner, best friend, financial support, co-cat parent, etc. I need to figure out how I can make a full-time income. I need to figure out where I want to live now. I need to figure out who I want to spend my time with.

I am moving and starting over somewhere else. We are selling the house and I have no reason to stay in California, so today I am getting in the car with my 2 cats, driving across the country and moving in with my parents for a little while (I will probably post from the road if I can).

I’ll have more thoughts as I restart my life on my own. As I continue building a full-time freelance income. I’ll have more ideas about scrapbooking and memory keeping through life events like this. I’ll have stories and laughs with the friends and family I will see more often now. I’ll have ideas about where I want to live next and what I want to deliberately choose now that I am rebuilding on my own.

This is my new story.

P.S. This is the reason I’ve barely blogged. The reason my first book hasn’t been finished as planned. The reason I never finished my December Daily album or ever went back to my January RESET project. The reason I can barely accomplish anything right now. Life is hard. Getting out of bed is hard. Please be gentle with me.

P.P.S. I will be moving into posting more long-form articles on the blog and sending more personal posts to my email list. Sign-up here if you’d like those.

P.P.P.S. This is where I ask for help. One thing you can help me with now is send your referrals for editing my way. I love that work, and I can do it any time, any where. Or grab any one of my courses. Or just buy your Amazon products through my affiliate link. Thank you. I love you guys.

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Where the heck is Amy? A PSA

I surrender. I give up. I can’t do all of this.

Have you noticed that my blog posts have been few and far between lately?

As of right now I’m going to stop pretending I can keep up with these posts for the time being.

I’ve got some personal stuff going on which is taking up a lot of time, but ALSO I am 100% committed to completing my novel — a George Washington historical fiction — by June 30.

And it’s got quite a bit of ways to go.

So I hereby declare that I am putting L&R on hold for a few weeks.

I’m still posting a little on Instagram, but otherwise I’m burrowing down to get this work done.

I can’t wait for you to read the book!

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P.S. Do I know anyone in NYC? I kinda want to plan a trip there this year just to see Hamilton (when Lin-Manuel is still in the cast).

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How to be an Introvert: Attending Live Events

Last September I went to a writing mastermind, a world-building summit where I met with a handful of writers over 2 days and helped create an entire fictional world. It was AMAZING. I loved it and it totally shaped my career going forward.

And, I’ll be honest — it was scary as hell. I didn’t know ANY of the other people (8 of us total), and I was 100% the least experienced of any of them. I was very VERY nervous, and if it weren’t for Andrew insisting it would be best for me I would have talked myself out of it.

The same guys/company put on another writer event just a week+ ago. It was totally different in a lot of ways — focused on business instead of story, no Dave, and WAY more people.

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As an introvert, and an introvert that works from home and doesn’t have much in the way of co-workers, attending a live event is way way outside my comfort zone.

But I found a few ways to make it work without being totally spent and drained at the end of each day ….

How to attend live, in-person events when you’re an introvert:

Try to make sure you know AT LEAST 1 person going

This might mean planning ahead with a friend, or possibly reaching out to 1 or 2 people you know are attending. Online, ahead of time. In a 1-on-1 email basis.

Fortunately, I now work with Johnny and Sean (who led the weekend) as well as Monica and Garrett (who attended). Plus, since I actually did the planning and corresponding with attendees, they were all at least cursorily familiar to me. I didn’t feel like I was in a room made up ONLY of strangers.

And just that little bit of familiarity helped so much.

Sit in the corner

In the third image below, you’ll see a shot of the whole room. In about the middle of the image, at the very end of the table you’ll see a blue water bottle. That’s mine. That’s where I sat. In the corner, with my friend Monica next to me and no stranger sitting on the other side. That wasn’t 100% intentional (there actually was an empty chair on the other side of me when the weekend began), but it was very fortuitous.

This cornering of myself limited the amount of stimulation I was made to deal with at any given time, and allowed me to *almost* have ‘alone time’ in the middle of the full room. I didn’t feel drained from making small talk all the time. It worked out really well.

Let people approach you

The first morning, I came in, sat down in my corner, and three different people approached me to introduce themselves. If I didn’t write about it here, I really REALLY doubt any of the other attendees went home thinking, ‘That Amy girl didn’t proactively introduce herself to anyone.’ Who would know?

Instead, I STILL met new people, but one at a time, without feeling like I was bugging them or encroaching on their space or anything. I admit, I had an advantage because I organized the event and they all had an idea of who I am, but still.

Give yourself time

Time to open up, time to be alone, time to make new friends. Give yourself time in your hotel room at night, even if everyone else is staying up to chat. I stayed up MUCH later than I usually do all 3 nights I was in Austin. But each time I was very conscious about how I was feeling, how tired I was, if I would be better off sleeping more.

I still didn’t get a chance to REALLY talk to everyone there (the event was only 2 days), but I feel good about the way I did spend my time.

Really all these tips can be boiled down to — BE YOURSELF. Give yourself permission to be an introvert and try not to care what someone else might think about you.

I also realize that these tips make me sound cranky and anti-social. Which I absolutely am not. I don’t think any of the other 20+ people there would have ever thought I was being anti-social or trying to limit my exposure to them. It is all just a way of knowing myself, what I am comfortable with and in what environment I can best thrive.

Here are just a few photos from the weekend, so you can get a sense of the room and the amount of people in attendance. I’ll be going to a September event as well. It will be only 15 people, MOST of whom I already know. Easy :)

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The guys want to put on a MUCH bigger 200-person event next spring! I’ll have to come up with a whole other set of tips for that!

What are your best tips for attending in-person events?

I want to start a small series of posts about living as an introvert! It’s a part of my personality I’ve only started to recognize and work with over the last couple years, and it’s fascinating to me. Check out my related Pinterest board here: How to be an Introvert

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P.S. Want to work with me?

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5 easy ways to write about your childhood

I mentioned the other day that my grandmother passed away last week. My last living blood-relative grandmother is now gone (although, my grandfather’s wife is pretty fantastic). All the stories from Grandma Jaye’s long life are now gone.

It’s so cliche, I know. But I so wish that she had journaled more stories about her childhood. She was almost 6 years old when the stock market crashed in 1929. She remembers having to downsize to a smaller apartment sometime in the 1930s. She grew up in Ohio and worked in nightclubs during WWII (and did her share of entertaining soldiers and sailors).

Don’t let your own stories disappear over time …. Journal about your childhood this week.

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Pull out your photos

Hopefully you have at least a couple. I have a ton (or, rather, my mom has a ton and I need to get copies from her). Journal about what you are doing in that photo. Journal about who else is in the photo. Journal about what you are wearing, about how you got all your opposite-gender-cousin’s hand-me-downs. Journal about where you are, about how you lived 5 years in that house and only have 2 memories from it. Journal about who took the photos of your childhood. Journal about the visual, what you see.

amyReread your journals, letters, and hand-written notes

I used to have binders and binders full of hand-written notes from high school and at some point, during one of my dozen moves, I threw them out. AND I AM SO BUMMED. Don’t make the same mistake I did.

Rereading letters you received, or your early diary entries or even school progress reports will help kickstart your memories and remind you of stories that you would like to write about now.

Review the media from that time period

What movies were in theaters during your childhood? What bands and music do you remember listening to? What books did you read over and over before bed? What stories were going on in the news that you have memories of?

Revisit the physical locations 

From your childhood home, to your school, to the 7-11 you walked to every afternoon in the summer to get a Slurpee. Here are some more tips on writing about your childhood home specifically.

Ask people who were there

Mom and Dad, yes, but what does your little brother remember about your 10th birthday party? What does your best friend remember about your 6th grade class trip? What about your babysitter? Your neighbor? Your Sunday School teacher?

BONUS: Register for MyDetails ecourse from Megan from Nerd Nest and Kristin from rukristin.

This ecourse has a TON of pre-class resources and new prompts begin May 4. Over the next seven weeks we will share with you twenty different creative prompts to document the details of your life.

You’ll be inspired by over 70 unique and exclusive MyDetails projects, 30+ of which are brand new to the 2015 Edition.

Megan and Kristin have spread the wealth and will be sharing projects in the form of mini-book pages, pocket page spreads, traditional scrapbook layouts, art journaling pages and more!

Return to these prompts again and again to document your details at any point. Return to them at a later date and translate them into documenting the details of the other important people in your life.

  I’ll be in the class! Hope to see you there!

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Resources to feed your wanderlust

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 As this post goes live, I will be embarking on a day of travel. Checking out of a hotel, catching a cab to the airport, waiting, flying, being picked up from the airport, fighting traffic and probably getting home late afternoon.

My weekend in Austin was work-related, I didn’t do anything touristy or even see much of the city other than the conference hotel.

But, you know what? STILL A TRIP. I’m counting it.

I have constant wanderlust and am always pricing out plane tickets or hotels or road trips or weekends away or SOMETHING. I love having travel plans in the pipeline. I love imagining where we’ll go next, what we’ll see, what I can take pictures of, what stories I will record when we get back.

Literally as soon as I started watching House of Cards, I started googling ‘Washington DC sublet’. I wish Amtrak went through Phoenix. I am so grateful I can work from anywhere, because lord knows I have a lot of trips on my wishlist.

If you’re like me and are dreaming of an adventure, here are some resources to help feed your wanderlust:

And some resources for recording your trip when you get back:

So I’m right now coming back from Austin, I will be in Phoenix this coming weekend, I want to make plans soon to visit friends in the MidWest, I’ll be going back to Austin in September ….. and I’d like to plan another trip somewhere new soon too!

What are your travel plans?

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